8 Reasons Why Women Always Choose the Wrong Guy

Butterflies and roller coasters aren’t always a good thing. They can also mean you’re anxious. It’s your gut telling you something is wrong. And that’s what you get for choosing the wrong guy. They’ll never give you peace.

7. Just Go for Looks

When it comes to finding a boyfriend, there's nothing wrong with looking for a hot guy. But looks only matter if they have a good personality as well.

Many conventionally attractive people don't need to care about their personalities. People will like them and give them attention.

Hot guys with zero or bad personalities are only good for sex. If you can't hold a conversation with them, or if they're rude and annoying, it doesn't matter what they look like. They are not worthy of you.

8. “We Accept the Love We Think We Deserve”

Bill said this to Charlie in The Perks of Being a Wallflower. So, what does this mean? It means that the love you choose reflects who you think you are as a person.

So, you may get to have two guys wanting to date you. You may know which one is bad and which is good, but you end up choosing the wrong guy anyway. Deep down, you think you don’t deserve the good one.

You think if you set your expectations too high, you’ll fail or screw things up. That’s probably why you choose the wrong guy.

This all comes down to your insecurities. So, you need to work on your confidence and take care of yourself mentally and physically. Think of the type of woman you admire and try to be her. Soon, you’ll attract a decent man into your life, and this time, you’ll be confident enough to say yes to him.