8 Reasons Why Women Always Choose the Wrong Guy
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In other cases, if someone wants to change for you, they will. Also, you don’t have to force them to change. It is not your job.
4. Don’t Have Great Self-Esteem
You may be drawn to men who treat you poorly because you lack self-esteem. Women of all shapes, ages, and colors are drawn to men with confidence. And guess what? Most of the jerks out there have plenty of confidence. They think they’re all that and, more often than not, will belittle you to lift themselves even higher.
So, start by changing the way you look on the outside. Work out, eat right, get your nails done, and do whatever else you need to do to feel pretty and amazing. The inside will follow suit once you start looking good on the outside.
5. Don’t Want to be Alone
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Women are usually scared to be alone and don’t know how to be alone. Sometimes, loneliness makes women choose the wrong guy.
You don't have any type of support to fall back on, so he's all you have. But are you all she has too? Probably not. So, before you enter any relationship, you should learn how to be happy alone.
6. You Think Nice Guys are Boring
Many girls like bad boys because books and movies tend to glorify them. But keep in mind that books and movies also glorify abuse and toxic relationships, so they’re not exactly reliable sources. But the truth is: Love doesn’t have to hurt. You can be in love and be happy.
Just because a guy is respectful and treats you well doesn’t mean he’s boring. Don’t worry if you don’t feel those butterflies when you’re with him. It’s because he makes you feel comfortable and safe.
